hey, i am married and i am a rso. my wife and i had a man come up to us wanting a dna text done. i dont like this at all. it could break up our family if things dont go right, i dont mean i will leave if he is not mine by blood i mean that my po might make me or court takes him away from us or makes me leave her. this guy also had tryed to say he has changed but he puts the blame on her and i was there it was not her. he is trying to manipulate her to leave me and go back to him. i dont know how to handle this i really want to kick his ass to tell the truth but i know it would make things even more bad for us. he keeps texting her and calling and **** like that. my wife is the kinda of person that is not aggressive. so she dont say much to him when he trys things. she trys to act like he did not say it at all. he even brought her soup to her work when she was sick. this is not his job it is mine. he had his chance. what the hell do i do. i dont want to lose her or my son. to me he is a weekend worrier/wanna be father. he has only seen him once and just held him. did not play with him or anything maybe said two words. what the hell do i do?