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hiya. i really dont know what to do here. maybe someone can help give me a different outlook on whats goin on here that maybe i dont see.
my wife has now been gone only bout 3 days. but it started bout 3 weeks ago. after about a week of me askin her to come to bed with me an it not happenin, when she finally did at 2 am one morn she got in bed an i asked what was goin on she looked at me with the most serious face an told me she was so done with me. ouch.
this is our 3rd time bein split up. the last 2 times were because i didnt stop cheatin on her. but i have not done that fer quite some time now. im never gonna say that i been the perfect husband. ive been, at many times, very verbally an emotionally abusive to her an our 4 children throughout our 10 yrs of marriage. seriously have an anger problem with a good dose of ADD. notta good combo.
my wife is really just a sweet hearted girl. has good ethics on how the kids should be raised in the mind. soft spoken fer the most part. mainly her down fall is that her moto is...why do today when ya can put it off till tommorro... but most of the time tommorro never comes. but as an employee she is great. dont get that.
this woman even through all of what life has dealt us is all that i know an love. she is my wife an i love her with all of my heart. i am willing, and have already started, to go thru whatever counciling, anger management an psychologist that i have to. i really dont wanna lose her an have my family torn apart over what i believe can be fixed. just seems that she wants nothin to do with it. we met each other when i was 15 an she was 12. now after us bein best friends an together off an on fer that whole time, totally together fer the last 13 yrs, i fear that all is lost. we definately have alot of water under the bridge. tryin to keep us together fer the family an dont wanna lose the best thing that has an could ever be in my life.
if someone has any ideas that a guy can try i sure would be appreciative.
my wife has now been gone only bout 3 days. but it started bout 3 weeks ago. after about a week of me askin her to come to bed with me an it not happenin, when she finally did at 2 am one morn she got in bed an i asked what was goin on she looked at me with the most serious face an told me she was so done with me. ouch.
this is our 3rd time bein split up. the last 2 times were because i didnt stop cheatin on her. but i have not done that fer quite some time now. im never gonna say that i been the perfect husband. ive been, at many times, very verbally an emotionally abusive to her an our 4 children throughout our 10 yrs of marriage. seriously have an anger problem with a good dose of ADD. notta good combo.
my wife is really just a sweet hearted girl. has good ethics on how the kids should be raised in the mind. soft spoken fer the most part. mainly her down fall is that her moto is...why do today when ya can put it off till tommorro... but most of the time tommorro never comes. but as an employee she is great. dont get that.
this woman even through all of what life has dealt us is all that i know an love. she is my wife an i love her with all of my heart. i am willing, and have already started, to go thru whatever counciling, anger management an psychologist that i have to. i really dont wanna lose her an have my family torn apart over what i believe can be fixed. just seems that she wants nothin to do with it. we met each other when i was 15 an she was 12. now after us bein best friends an together off an on fer that whole time, totally together fer the last 13 yrs, i fear that all is lost. we definately have alot of water under the bridge. tryin to keep us together fer the family an dont wanna lose the best thing that has an could ever be in my life.
if someone has any ideas that a guy can try i sure would be appreciative.