tell him everything
secrets are never good
oh well perhaps one learn the hard way?
secrets are never good
oh well perhaps one learn the hard way?
I just got an icky feeling reading your post. And what F-102 said was exactly what popped into my mind. It sounds like this guy feels entitled to say what he wants because he has been such a big help to you and he knows you need his connections. Disgusting!He's done a lot to help you. Sounds like he may expect "favors" in return.
Bonbons,He said, "I almost didn't offer this to you because you're a lot of fun to flirt with." I was shocked and I started to laugh because that made me nervous. Then he says, "It's true I said it, I like to flirt with you."
So as I was leaving for the interview I start to tell him why I'm back in school. He cuts me off with his own guesses, and then he really crosses the line. "To cheat on your husband." Then he laughed.
Anyway I'm trying to avoid this guy as much as possible.
I've told my husband most of what has happened except for the cheating comment. Any advice would be great.
Maybe...but more likely he will continue to flirt b/c he's getting off on this. He thinks he has a green light due to his position + the fact that the OP didn't cut him off at the knees when this first happened.Pay no attention to his flirting and he'll back off.