Wow! Really? Go ahead and play victim if you like. Fine. That's ok. Whatever.Plenty of time to throw out guesses, assumptions and hate.
I grew up in the era of sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. So I just see animosity here.
A guy I regularly play tennis with is on VERY short rope with his wife. She's the Air Traffic Controller of It All. Can hardly squeeze him out of her grips to play tennis once in a while. Sucks to be him. Some of us get beer in the summer after playing. He's screwed when it comes to this.
There's the backstory. Enjoy.