Just curious for thoughts ...
When I proposed to my wife 11 years ago, not much thought or planning went into it. We had been dating for 5 years, and she knew it was coming ..because I asked her to go pick out the ring with me ... so, I ended up asking her in her apartment, right before bed time .. and while she doesn't harp on it, I know from the fact that she brings it up from time to time (that it wasn't romantic) that it's probably a source of long-term resentment for her ..
So ..I'm thinking of a redo .. but not sure of a few things..
..if I ask her again, should I plan on another wedding ceremony?
..should I present another ring, or somehow get her a bigger diamond for her existing one?
Any thoughts appreciated ...
When I proposed to my wife 11 years ago, not much thought or planning went into it. We had been dating for 5 years, and she knew it was coming ..because I asked her to go pick out the ring with me ... so, I ended up asking her in her apartment, right before bed time .. and while she doesn't harp on it, I know from the fact that she brings it up from time to time (that it wasn't romantic) that it's probably a source of long-term resentment for her ..
So ..I'm thinking of a redo .. but not sure of a few things..
..if I ask her again, should I plan on another wedding ceremony?
..should I present another ring, or somehow get her a bigger diamond for her existing one?
Any thoughts appreciated ...