Well, I've dicided to get out of my marriage. My wife has no idea what it take to make a relationship. She is bossy, rude, and downright mean to me. Her family is a dysfunctional nightmare. They ar all very rude, selfish and mean to ech other. Every day I find out more and more that is screwed up with this family. Abuse, drug probems, but most of all they are just not nice people. They back stab each other, they ridicule each other. In my family we may lose touch sometimes with each other but we are all respectful of each other. Her upbringing was so screwed up, that she will never know how to treat people, especially a husband. I need a good lawyer to make sure that what's fair is fair. i have a daughter and stepdaughter and they are not going to be shown how to disrespect people and generally treat them like crap. I don't want them to think that that is all there is. I want them to appreciate things in life without always questioning them. I've tried to encorage my wife to go to marriage counselling and go to personal therapy and she won't. I'm done. I just want to make it as easy on the kids as possible. This was just a rant. Thanks for reading.