Hi all,new guy here.This may sound trivial to some but for me its a big deal.Been married 13 yrs,2 great kids,shes starting to work I work 50 hrs a week,5 days and try to farm.Long time on my job. I don't drink,don't run around with friends home every night like clockwork.
When we married about all I asked for her to do was don't cheat and don't drink.Past history for me,abusive babysitter when I was little (alcohol) .Was engaged once before and broke it off due to drinking ,cheating and bi-polar on her part.
Found out through her facebook that she was at her sisters for a couple of days and out getting drunk,found out this is a reoccurring thing every couple of months.Sisters a couple of hours away.She left kids with in laws.I confronted her about this when she got home and got no response.I know she called her sister after I went to bed probably to figure out how to handle this. Over the course of the marriage it seems like the sister has become the best friend that I used to be.We don't fight or argue but I just feel ignored and dis respected.
Bottom line is I'm so hurt ,mad I couldn't stay in the same bed last night.I just don't know any more.
When we married about all I asked for her to do was don't cheat and don't drink.Past history for me,abusive babysitter when I was little (alcohol) .Was engaged once before and broke it off due to drinking ,cheating and bi-polar on her part.
Found out through her facebook that she was at her sisters for a couple of days and out getting drunk,found out this is a reoccurring thing every couple of months.Sisters a couple of hours away.She left kids with in laws.I confronted her about this when she got home and got no response.I know she called her sister after I went to bed probably to figure out how to handle this. Over the course of the marriage it seems like the sister has become the best friend that I used to be.We don't fight or argue but I just feel ignored and dis respected.
Bottom line is I'm so hurt ,mad I couldn't stay in the same bed last night.I just don't know any more.