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My h has asked me many times why i love him. I've never answered that question. And that's what i need help with. My answers would have always been along the lines of "because you make me happy" or "you make me laugh", always in relation to what he does for me or how he makes me feel. I know if i'd ever answered his question with something like that he would have told me that i don't love him, i love the idea of him. Is he right? And if so, then why am i so hurt, sad and upset at the thought of him leaving me?
I want to be able to answer his question and not have any doubts about those being valid reasons for loving someone, if in fact they are valid. If not i'm beginning to realize that i need to face it in order to have the best life i can after divorce.
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I want to be able to answer his question and not have any doubts about those being valid reasons for loving someone, if in fact they are valid. If not i'm beginning to realize that i need to face it in order to have the best life i can after divorce.
Posted via Mobile Device