I lost right now. My story. It about a year ago I was suffering from depression. I withdrew from my family and wife. She felt she was raising our kids by herself and she was right. I was depressed and didn't know how to communicate that with her. This made her give-up on me (so she said). DDay was in July. She had been acting funny for about a month, so I started getting a feeling that something was up. She didn't come home until 1:30 one night. When she came home I had notice she got a text. The next morning she would not look at me, so I knew something was wrong. She left to run errands so I went back and looked at the phone records and I notice there was thousand of text from this number. I called that number and found out it was guy she has worked with in the past. I asked her if she had affair and she said yes. I asked to have NC with the OM. I was destroyed and she said it was because I was not there the previous year. I asked why did you say you were unhappy. Well I found out that she contacted him in September and week ago. I asked why and she said it was a weak moment. She said she wants our marriage to work but she said she loves me but not in love and she still has feelings for the OM but it's not love. WHAT DO I DO NOW!