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I have been dating my boyfriend for about almost 3 years now and have been engaged for almost 2 and he has an obession with talking to other woman sexual on the internet and his cell phone.......I have caught him many times having dirty messages in his cell phone and he has so many woman listed in his phone and on his myspace I dont mind him talking to other people that is fine it's just talking sexual to them that obviously bothers me........he has promised me and promised me that this would stop and I keep giving into him because I think he has stopped but then last night i found a message in his phone from a woman talking about their phone sex that they had......i was actually in the kitchen getting a piece of cake and his phone rang with a text so I looked at it and there it was.........my heart broke and i couldnt even eat anything we had just made up from a fight we had just last week about almost the same thing about the woman on his cell phone......................I just feel stuck I love him sooo much i dont think he will ever know how much I really love him I would and do give him the world.........I dont understand why he would do this to me if he loves me like he says he does.........am I the only the person that goe through this???????????????? Is there anyone else out there that is going through the same thing as me.............I would love to talk and understand and try to fix my relationship with him................because my trust for him right now not there....................
 

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Many men look at porn, but if you are in a committed relationship interaction with other women of a sexual nature in my opinion is crossing the line. You need to decide what your boundaries are and if he refuses to comply, find someone else as it indicates how little respect he has for your feelings.
 

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I don't think YOU can fix the relationship problems because HE is the one who keeps crossing the line and disrespecting your feelings on this matter. You can stay with him and expect that he will ALWAYS treat you this way, or you can leave him and find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated. It almost NEVER works for someone to change another person...we can nag them, brow beat them, sweet talk them, but unless they really feel the need to change, they won't do it.

Talk is cheap, especially his promises.

You deserve a better man.
 
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