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First, if you want this to work itself out, I hope it does.

On your comment a car wouldn't work for sex...actually very few cars won't work for sex or sex of some type (sorry).

You're both very young. It may be better to address this type of thing now, maybe it will help with communication and issues later. A tough spot.

Hang in there.
 

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Realize how hard this is to write considering dyslexia, etc. I find UR posts hard to follow at times and a few periods when thoughts change would be appreciated. When you enumerated your answers in response to questions, it was much easier.

Understand that this sub-forum is made up of years of experience involving lots of HURT. There are a variety of opinions and you are to choose the parts of those that are most helpful to you. Folks that are happy are not as likely to come back--for many reasons, but especially to avoid triggers.

Wife was not a little drunk as described in first post--later we know she couldn't stand up straight. He is/was grooming her--testing the waters. Never is it rude to refuse ANYTHING that you fear may compromise your character/morals or even if one is a little bit uncomfortable or just has a bad gut feeling. NO is a complete sentence. Your wife must understand that.

Likely he had his hands on her breasts if not more--maybe what you alluded to in the 'hands all over her' post. Thinking y'all realize that much worse could have happened and could in the future if you are not diligent--guess that is the reason for your initial post.

Sounds like the two of you have addressed some of the immediate issues--but don't stop talking about this and how YOU FEEL.
Your daughter is a great reason to work on this now--thinking you are brave to ask for help!
 
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