for some unkown reason i found this reply hilariousThe trick is to meet women who are compatible and interesting to you. Can you make a list of what sorts of qualities you find important. You might want a woman who is outdoorsy and athletic. If so, join a running club; volunteer with a group to clean up hiking trails, etc, join an ultimate frisbee team. If you want a woman who is a homey person try taking a cooking class. If you need someone that is family oriented, attend PTA meetings, go to your church events.
^^^^You can't really go out looking for them, they come like opportunities - miss one opportunity and boom it's all over. The only thing you can really do is to prepare yourself for these opportunities so you stop missing out.
Speaking of church, would you say that's a good place? The thing is, I find it hard to imagine a 25-30 year old woman going to church. I always picture old people and kids.Well,
She could be on the same train you take to go to work.
She could be the the driver that courteously allowed you to park ahead of her in the mall parking lot.
She could be anywhere, not necessarily in a group or church etc.
I don't know Finchley,Speaking of church, would you say that's a good place? The thing is, I find it hard to imagine a 25-30 year old woman going to church. I always picture old people and kids.