My wife and I have been married for 17 years. For about the last year she had become very distant. The only time she calls me during the day is if she needs me to do something or to chew on me for something or simply complain about what someone done to her. We are never intimate. I mean maybe once a month and when it happens its like hurry up and get done. She never really wants to talk or have anything to do with me and when I mention it she just calls me a big baby. I cant tell that she is having an affair but I have noticed that she is getting a great deal of other ladies phone numbers stored in her phone. Most of her time seems to be accounted for, but the job she works does not have a set time for her to be off work. I mean it could be early at night to late at night. I am at a loss. If someone would like to chat with me about this I would really like to do it.