[TinyTbone]

There is normally nothing wrong with friendships of the opposing sex. So long as our SO is aware of it and that they do contact from time to time about whatever and like jobs. However, I feel it crossed a boundary when keeping photos of them with no real relevance to aforementioned. To minimize this by saying I find them attractive is about the same as cruising web sites looking at pics of women. Either way if our SO is bothered by this we should validate their concerns and delete of stop said behavior. Our priorities should always be to our relationship with our SO first and always.

 

[TinyTbone]

Thank you for that. I never had an issue with her at all until I found that photo. Made me feel like there's something more and it's weirder because I know her. I feel that something was crossed at that moment as well. Thanks for validating my concern.

I know the feeling personally. I found individual pics of a man I didn't know. I did inquire. It was of someone who had catfished her years ago. So why was it still there? She has shown a propensity for selfish behavior, even texting other men who I didn't know either. I let her know this in my purview of our marriage , that this is wrong. Violates our thrust bond. This will not happen again. Period. Of course she tried to minimize it, but I wasn't having it. I have found my voice now and will tolerate no boundaries being violated, however innocent it may seem. We discuss who we text with together and yeah or neigh what is or isn't acceptable and respect it. Marriage is special and should remain special