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Dear Community
This is the first thread i have ever posted and i am nervous but reaching out for your advice if you have interest or good advice to share.
I am looking for insight into my relationship with my fiancee, who i have been with for 4 years (our wedding is planned for next spring) but one thing came up to throw a monkey wrench that hasn't over 4 years of a partnership, trusting, loving, collaborative, monogamous, truthful, mutual respecting relationship.
For whatever reason this one movie caused a pretty serious riff. She told me she liked and wanted the movie and the guys were hot. I bought the movie for her (yes I do have some confidence issues as i am 40 and not 22 with a tight six pack) because she wanted it and she commented on that. Then she told me she didn't want it and was not interested in the movie, so i returned it.
Now I don't know what she really wants, whether i still am the guy she wants to be with, or what's going on. This has caused a riff that i don't know how to handle with her.
Can any women/couples/men share similar experience - has anyone reached forties when i don't have the body or drive of a 22 or 25 year old, and can't compare, how can i still attract my fiancee?
I'd appreciate any advice you may have. Thanks very much.
thanks,
LfHwTT
This is the first thread i have ever posted and i am nervous but reaching out for your advice if you have interest or good advice to share.
I am looking for insight into my relationship with my fiancee, who i have been with for 4 years (our wedding is planned for next spring) but one thing came up to throw a monkey wrench that hasn't over 4 years of a partnership, trusting, loving, collaborative, monogamous, truthful, mutual respecting relationship.
For whatever reason this one movie caused a pretty serious riff. She told me she liked and wanted the movie and the guys were hot. I bought the movie for her (yes I do have some confidence issues as i am 40 and not 22 with a tight six pack) because she wanted it and she commented on that. Then she told me she didn't want it and was not interested in the movie, so i returned it.
Now I don't know what she really wants, whether i still am the guy she wants to be with, or what's going on. This has caused a riff that i don't know how to handle with her.
Can any women/couples/men share similar experience - has anyone reached forties when i don't have the body or drive of a 22 or 25 year old, and can't compare, how can i still attract my fiancee?
I'd appreciate any advice you may have. Thanks very much.
thanks,
LfHwTT