As an update, I met with the lawyer and unfortunately she indicated she couldn't do what I wanted--ie.Husband and I want to separate/divorce and we want to have it very simple in that husband doesn't want any marital assets/suport now or in the future, etc. and we just want to separate with what we each came into the marriage 6 years ago (no children). We want it amicable/non contested/no fault and most important inexpensive.
Her firm indicated that they needed to do a mandatory discovery/disclosure of all accounts/assets before she could even begin the process. So with that being said, I am looking for another lawyer and hopes to find one that will do what we both want.
When I talked to my husband about what the lawyer said he flipped out and made the comment if I asked the lawyer of what would happen if he just left the country??? This never crossed my mind and is now something I would have to ask the next lawyer...
I really didn't think it would be this diffcult.