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What do I do, how do I cope, if the person that I'm in love with tells me that looking at me brings back all the pain and hurt we have caused? I'm desperate not to lose them!
Being desperate to keep the person in your life will only make matters worse. I'd recommend a couple of things:

1. Change your attitude and focus on being the fun, carefree "you" you that first appealed to your loved one.

2. Change your appearance to reflect that fun, carefree attitude. A new haircut you've never worn before, a new hair color, both, a different style of wardrobe, and different activities in your spare time will not only catch his attention, they'll also give you tools to not feel so desperate if he doesn't get back to where you'd like to be.

3. Make certain that your behaviors are so different now that you could never cause that kind of pain in anyone ever again.
 
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