Hi Acabado,Don't know whether I fit the "Long terms success" but I'm close to three years after DDay and I'm happy, we are happy.
My story is one of a good marriage, my wife agrees with it, she allowed herslef to be flattered too much, things got out of hand and had a intense, marriage killer, affair with a MOM, a complete loser who dropped her the moment he was busted to my wife's dismay.
She thought life had ended for her. That bad. Three months after that we were about to stat the divorce procedings, she asked me to put it on hold giving me guarantee of a fair settlement. I agreed and watched her for several months while she dismantled the affair in her head until I decided to jump into R. She did all she had to do and more. The emotional rollercoaster of hell begun and here we are. Was hard but we did it.
I'm sure very few would get her wife back after this kind of affair. I chose to do it and I'm happy I made that decision.
Well, I made a commitment to be there for her, to look after her. And to the best of my ability, that's what I have done.Depends on how you look at it. He thinks it was.