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DANGER WILL ROBINSON DANGER. Tread softly and guard your heart. I believe in R when it's warranted. Like the others have said, look back at the beginning of your posts and try to channel your feelings.
 
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Gents thank you for the feedback.

Staying at 50k is a must now and will be essential.

To be clear I didn't stop the divorce, she did.

She needs to prove to me that she has changed and it starts with actions from this point forward

I always wanted an R with her. But this time it's on my terms and I'm writing the script for this.
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Do NOT make a rash decision she is on your timetable.
Remember what she put you through.
How could you ever trust her again.
She must have found out you are dating and enjoying life finally.
I think you're right this isn't real.
She admitted finally to everything so that's a start towards trusting her again

Time is the only thing I can take now to see if this is real
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Want the truth. I was very apprehensive about it. My guard is up!
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No problem there. I got the same speech the first time she came back. And, I bought it whole hog. Lapsed right back into codependence.

My old pal Mavi chortled, "You got played"

She was right.

There's something therapeutic about this. You didn't really know how bad things were when she dumped you. Now, you do.

And, you can proceed with eyes wide open.

Liberating, but scary.

This will be different than anything you've had with her before.

And, there's no way to know how it turns out.

So, don't try.

It's like you're meeting her for the first time.

But, you're legally married.



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No problem there. I got the same speech the first time she came back. And, I bought it whole hog. Lapsed right back into codependence.

My old pal Mavi chortled, "You got played"

She was right.

There's something therapeutic about this. You didn't really know how bad things were when she dumped you. Now, you do.

And, you can proceed with eyes wide open.

Liberating, but scary.

This will be different than anything you've had with her before.

And, there's no way to know how it turns out.

So, don't try.

It's like you're meeting her for the first time.

But, you're legally married.
I suggested that we completely start from the begging. Start dating each other, getting to re know each other and see where it goes.

That's the level of commitment I'm prepared to give her and that's all
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I think that's TMI.

There are things she needs to discover.

She'll be ready to hear the answer when she asks.

This may be the toughest part of this for you.
Noted. Discretion from here on out.

On a side note. Ending it with CF? Right move. I didn't tell matchbox about me ending it. I just told her I was dating her
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Discussion Starter · #519 · (Edited)
Was how I was going to handle it. Thanks Conrad


Being fitness tested by matchbox already?

Supposed to go to dinner this weekend in the city and she's asking that I stay over night with her in a hotel. Offered to pay for it (that's a first and she will be if I accept the invitation)

Thoughts about this?

Do I want to: yea
Does it feel odd: a little
Is it the right thing to do: ?
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and there it is...i knew it has been too quite.

just got a call from my laywer. matchbox filed a motion against him and he can no longer represent me as he did our taxes last year and is now considered a conflict of interest.

He is going to recommend to me a new laywer...shes got some good timing

Why don't you hire this guy?

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