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My first post and the beginnings of my story can be found here
My wife returned home from a work trip that had her away the entire first week after i found out that she is, at the very least having a deep EM with another man. Details are in the other post, but basically when confronted she was surprised and then stated she hadnt been happy in a long time ("maybe since the spring") and wanted a D. She says she isnt communicating with OM now, but i dont see how that is possible giving what they were saying to each other.
My question is now that we will have to be together for the next few weeks (while i get things together to move, since we JUST moved to follow her career {mine allows me to live anywhere}), how do I treat her?
She is fairly nice to me, if a bit awkward at times when she is obviously thinking about the situation. She seems overly interested in where I'm moving to (also asked what i'm going to do for T-giving). Not sure if she is wanting to know when and how far away I'll move (like she is afraid I'll stay in town) or if she secretly wants me to stay close.
So confused as to what to do now! The 180 was working so well while she was gone. Please help!
My wife returned home from a work trip that had her away the entire first week after i found out that she is, at the very least having a deep EM with another man. Details are in the other post, but basically when confronted she was surprised and then stated she hadnt been happy in a long time ("maybe since the spring") and wanted a D. She says she isnt communicating with OM now, but i dont see how that is possible giving what they were saying to each other.
My question is now that we will have to be together for the next few weeks (while i get things together to move, since we JUST moved to follow her career {mine allows me to live anywhere}), how do I treat her?
She is fairly nice to me, if a bit awkward at times when she is obviously thinking about the situation. She seems overly interested in where I'm moving to (also asked what i'm going to do for T-giving). Not sure if she is wanting to know when and how far away I'll move (like she is afraid I'll stay in town) or if she secretly wants me to stay close.
So confused as to what to do now! The 180 was working so well while she was gone. Please help!