Been together 3 years. Married for over 15 months. We used to be hot for each other. Not anymore. She never wants to touch me. It hurts me. I have no self esteem. None! She took it away. This time I went for personality instead of looks. Don’t get me wrong I know my wife is beautiful. We might have boring sex 2 or 3 times a month. I heard that she used to have profiles on about all of the hookup dating sites. I got nosy. When we first met she would talk about all kinds of things. She was cheated on. I ask her if it was intamacy issue. She said we were together 10-14 years and we did it 5 times a week. I thought wow. She would talk this big sex game but, not for me . It was great for 6 months. Then down hill. Fast. She would meet people online and drive to other counties to hook up.It was a first date or second. Or maybe just talked on line and she wanted to have sex so off she went. First dates. They would asked for sex and or oral sex. She talked about how good she was at it. First dates, maybe a few she waited until the second . What do I do? It’s killing me.