I found out my wife has been hiding money for a long time and just found some marijuana in the bathroom, and she secretly(trys to be) smokes cigs...Can I trust her anymore, We have a 6 yr old son. We argue all the time, she is very very selfish. Constantly lies...Will not admit when shes wrong or express any feelings other than all her faults are a result of me.We've been together for 7 yrs. Its been a roller coaster. Many times she has lied and even when shes caught red handed she won't admit it or she'll make a stupid excuse. Her answer to everything is f... you I want a divorce. She has a terrible temper. Basically she not the person I thought she was, but we have a son...?????Now she is staying with her Mom I'm at home with our son.What now???