I agree with Dad&Hubby up there... ya know people are different, I like my men lanky, if their six pack ripples are too bulgy, I even find that a turn off.
Was hanging with a GF the other night, she was telling me how she likes 'em BEEFY, Tall BIG men....and no offense, my husband is a great guy - but too thin.....Have another GF who likes 'em bald & muscly...that is the total opposite of what works for me... Give me Kurt Cobain & Axel Rose back in the day...Mmmmmmm.
We have a Guy friend who prefers Plus size women.... now I know that ain't the norm....but it's his attraction.. he married my friend - bigger all her life....was made fun of in school even ....he's loved her forever - meeting in their teens....And he is as thin as my husband.
So attraction varies.... it is so individualized.
Very few men expect a super model...unless maybe they are famous themselves. I think our "
attitudes", how we carry ourselves, go a long way in attracting the opposite sex.... I've seen threads on here - which would a man prefer....
#1 ... average looking - a few extra pounds -but self confident, great personality - loves sex.... VS...
#2 - the super model, she's got it all in hot looks, tremendous to carry on his arm but her personality is lacking /not that great in bed.
Hands down, all the men chose #1....everyone of them, it's not about competing with these Babes.
Be the best you can BE, work with that you have going on.
funtimes says: Why is it a woman's responsibility to keep the sex alive? What do men do for us? They get older, fatter, and hairy. They don't have the pressures women do to go buy lingerie, get waxed, stay in shape, get hair done, or anything of the sort. Just wondering what your thoughts are on this!
I look at this as an attitude...again... At the end of the day, every one of us should want to present our BEST to our spouse... so they WANT to partake & get down & dirty.
Not sure about you, but it's damn important to me that my husband desires me... That reason alone is enough to put in the "effort" - but more than anything, it makes us feel good about ourselves too!!
Cosmos said : Whilst the media might play a part in this, I do think we get what we expect. I couldn't tolerate a man who didn't take care of himself, anymore than I'd expect him to tolerate me. Making the best of ourselves, IMO, is a sign of self-respect and respect for our partners.
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