In a lot of these posts I see women say that they've gained weight, that they've let themselves go, or that they don't wear "sexy" clothes that much anymore... Why is it a woman's responsibility to keep the sex alive? What do men do for us? They get older, fatter, and hairy. They don't have the pressures women do to go buy lingerie, get waxed, stay in shape, get hair done, or anything of the sort. Just wondering what your thoughts are on this!