My husband and I have been married for 2 years and are in our late 20s. His father recently passed away and we have been trying to figure out what life will look like for us in the future. We decided that for the time being we would stay with his mother. Its been two and a half months and we have decided to sell our house, move in with his mom and live together from now on. I am going through a lot of emotions. I am sad over loosing my father-in law. I am upset over having to sell my house - the first we bought just for ourselves. I am stressed because now we are paying 2 mortgages before we sell. I am angry at my mother-in-law. She is in her early-mid 50s and insists on living with us. I cant imagine my life going forward. I have to share almost every moment with her until its time for us to go to bed. She treats my husband like a child and I feel like the third wheel in this already constructed family. I know my husband is stressed and heart broken over loosing his father at a young age. I dont want to add more stress in his life. I dont know what to do. In my perfect world, we would go back to normal. My husband and I would live on our own. But if we did that I know my husband would regret it. I've made a lot of sacrifices for my husband in the past but I just cant get over this one. For context, my mother-in-law is super sweet, cooks, cleans and is generally a nice person. As a 20 something I miss my independence and this time of just being with my husband. Beyond that I'm scared to get pregnant and bring a child into the home. My mother in law has a habit of taking charge and being the "mom" of the house. I feel like I've reverted back to adolescence with her here. I know she desperately misses my father-in-law who she really took care of. This isnt the life she had imagined either. I'm torn- what do I do?