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Corgi Mum

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D0nnivain said:
I tried dating men who were good guys but with whom I never felt that spark. Never worked. For me if attraction wasn't there from the outset it never materialized. After that initial spark if there was substance behind the outward good looks things could deepen but otherwise it just fizzled out usually before the end of the 1st date
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Ditto this.

Physically my type has always been lean, even skinny, and cleanshaven, usually with dark hair.

The personality traits that I find most attractive (beyond the usual stuff like intelligence, integrity, having s**t together) are being down to earth and unpretentious, maturity, high emotional IQ, and a dry sense of humour. No interest in those middle-aged "I refuse to grow up" dudes who think behaving like a teenager makes them seem youthful. But I have to admit that kindness toward animals makes me melt....
 
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Corgimom - thx for the animal lover comment. I was like MIB here....ain't no way a woman bumps into me and says "oh, excuse me Mr. Craig...." But at least I have great game with animals. They like me and I'm good with them. Grew up with roughly 5 billion cats, lots of dogs, a racoon...even a possum briefly. Oh...and had a corgi too....
 
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Corgi Mum said:
Ditto this.

Physically my type has always been lean, even skinny, and cleanshaven, usually with dark hair.

The personality traits that I find most attractive (beyond the usual stuff like intelligence, integrity, having s**t together) are being down to earth and unpretentious, maturity, high emotional IQ, and a dry sense of humour. No interest in those middle-aged "I refuse to grow up" dudes who think behaving like a teenager makes them seem youthful. But I have to admit that kindness toward animals makes me melt....
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I've had a couple friends who were such people persons that they weren't into animals, but someone good with animals, I respect that. Even if I didn't like the person, if they were good with and to animals, I'd give them the benefit of the doubt.
 
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frusdil said:
The sexiest man in the world is one who's mother is dead :ROFLMAO:

Got a couple of shocked reactions on my comment...for the newbies (long termers know my story) I'm joking, obviously. I don't wish harm on anyone. Not even the old...I mean...her.
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I don't take it as a joke. But I don't take it literally. It's a big problem if a man hasn't "separated" from his mother. Still living the way she taught him.
 
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