From about the time my W got comfortable with me, she has never been hard to get to orgasm, either timing wise or with multiples. It didn't start out that way, but over not a lot of time (a couple months), she has been an orgasm machine. I tried to really "learn her" and spent a lot of time trying to give her orgasms....both a lot of them and different types.
But one thing I've noticed as time goes on, is she seems to orgasm quicker and quicker. She's not much into foreplay, which is slightly disappointing for me as I am, and typically wants to get "right to business" pretty quick. I love to slowly tease her and get her really ramped up, but she has always been fine with just getting right to intercourse. I swear, if she says "I'm horny", all I have to do is make sure I can get it in without hurting her from lack of lube on the outside, and she is immediately and fully "into it".
I try to keep the sexual tension pretty high with her at most times. Several times a day, there are sexual undertones to our conversation or things I'll say (or I'll fairly often just boldly tell her I can't wait to get home to phuck her or watch her orgasm). Just enough to let her know I'm still desiring her, and even (as the last couple months or so) when I'm so very stressed and not always in the mood, I like to keep the sexual tension high and let her know she's desired. Sometimes we're going at it 4 or 5 days a week, sometimes two or three times a day, and other times we'll take an unspoken "break" where neither of us initiate or seem very "horny" for a week or even two, and both are content just to cuddle on the couch or fall asleep cuddling in bed. It amazes me that we seem so in sync that we both seem to want it about the same, or at times not much at all, and these desires (or lack thereof) seem to fall to both of us about the same. We are so damned content and there is never any sexual frustration, even during periods where we aren't having sex.
As time goes on, her orgasms seem to be coming faster and faster. Last night when we got back from being out with friends after a work function out of town, we got back to our room and I threw her down on the bed, balcony door "open to the world" (yet not visible to anyone), pulled her panties off quickly, passionately, and a little forcefully, told her "I need to be in you now", went straight to intercourse, and within a no kidding 15 to 20 seconds after penetration with no foreplay, she was already starting her "I'm....I'm...." ("I'm coming" in my W's speak) and started first orgasm. I'm used to her having one after just a couple of minutes or sometimes even just one minute, but 15 seconds?!!! The timing to her first orgasm seems to just keep decreasing as time goes on.
What drives a woman to this "ability" if you will? Am I just the luckiest guy on earth, or have some of you women found an ability to do this when you are incredibly comfortable, happy, trusting, and satisfied in a relationship? We have an outstanding relationship, she was in a bad and sexless marriage for many years before me where she just did not want sex at all, and we hit it off exceptionally well in bed (and in the relationship in general) from almost the start. But again, 15 seconds? I knew I (she / we) was / are "lucky" in this department, but this just blows my mind.
But one thing I've noticed as time goes on, is she seems to orgasm quicker and quicker. She's not much into foreplay, which is slightly disappointing for me as I am, and typically wants to get "right to business" pretty quick. I love to slowly tease her and get her really ramped up, but she has always been fine with just getting right to intercourse. I swear, if she says "I'm horny", all I have to do is make sure I can get it in without hurting her from lack of lube on the outside, and she is immediately and fully "into it".
I try to keep the sexual tension pretty high with her at most times. Several times a day, there are sexual undertones to our conversation or things I'll say (or I'll fairly often just boldly tell her I can't wait to get home to phuck her or watch her orgasm). Just enough to let her know I'm still desiring her, and even (as the last couple months or so) when I'm so very stressed and not always in the mood, I like to keep the sexual tension high and let her know she's desired. Sometimes we're going at it 4 or 5 days a week, sometimes two or three times a day, and other times we'll take an unspoken "break" where neither of us initiate or seem very "horny" for a week or even two, and both are content just to cuddle on the couch or fall asleep cuddling in bed. It amazes me that we seem so in sync that we both seem to want it about the same, or at times not much at all, and these desires (or lack thereof) seem to fall to both of us about the same. We are so damned content and there is never any sexual frustration, even during periods where we aren't having sex.
As time goes on, her orgasms seem to be coming faster and faster. Last night when we got back from being out with friends after a work function out of town, we got back to our room and I threw her down on the bed, balcony door "open to the world" (yet not visible to anyone), pulled her panties off quickly, passionately, and a little forcefully, told her "I need to be in you now", went straight to intercourse, and within a no kidding 15 to 20 seconds after penetration with no foreplay, she was already starting her "I'm....I'm...." ("I'm coming" in my W's speak) and started first orgasm. I'm used to her having one after just a couple of minutes or sometimes even just one minute, but 15 seconds?!!! The timing to her first orgasm seems to just keep decreasing as time goes on.
What drives a woman to this "ability" if you will? Am I just the luckiest guy on earth, or have some of you women found an ability to do this when you are incredibly comfortable, happy, trusting, and satisfied in a relationship? We have an outstanding relationship, she was in a bad and sexless marriage for many years before me where she just did not want sex at all, and we hit it off exceptionally well in bed (and in the relationship in general) from almost the start. But again, 15 seconds? I knew I (she / we) was / are "lucky" in this department, but this just blows my mind.
