Hey all,
I was told by my bf today that I'm being too sexually aggressive. I'm in my peaking 40's and want him all the freakin' time (he's 38) & noticed that he was not getting into being intimate with me as often or as enthusiastically as he used to so I just asked him what the problem was & he said:
What advice can you all give me on how to curb my desire for him when he's not in the mood & be this 'challenge' that he's looking for? We spend all our time together after work & I can't imagine sneaking off to mb while he's home watching TV. How do you guys do it?
I was told by my bf today that I'm being too sexually aggressive. I'm in my peaking 40's and want him all the freakin' time (he's 38) & noticed that he was not getting into being intimate with me as often or as enthusiastically as he used to so I just asked him what the problem was & he said:
Ugh! I appreciate his candor & will try my best to accomodate his wishes, but I'm a little resentful that he can't just soak up & enjoy the attention, adoration, & plentiful sex I'm offering him, and now I have to curb my desires to satisfy this caveman 'hunt' concept of his & pray that he approaches me more than once or twice a week.sometimes I feel alot of pressure to perform since you make it clear that you are very horny on a daily basis, and that takes a little bit of the fun out of it like there's an expectation that needs to be met. As a man, it's also in my nature to "pursue" you, but when you make it very clear that you're always ready & open for business, I'm less motivated to try because it feels like I don't really have to try. I know I'm very lucky to have such a gorgeous, sexy woman willing to satisfy me on a daily basis and I don't want to take you for granted or not keep you satisfied, but I do feel alot of pressure from you to do so. Sometimes I feel like if I don't keep you satisfied that you might think about looking for some younger buck who's got more energy and sexual drive then I do. I hope that's never the case. I very much enjoy knowing that you desire me, but maybe it's something I need to hear less or not on a daily basis. Then, if I'm wondering if you're hot for me there's only one way for me to find out...
What advice can you all give me on how to curb my desire for him when he's not in the mood & be this 'challenge' that he's looking for? We spend all our time together after work & I can't imagine sneaking off to mb while he's home watching TV. How do you guys do it?