Husband just told me about being with someone...he is under an extreme amount of stress. I am trying to understand why men do this and can separate emotion from sex. He is extremely remorseful, feels ashamed and wants to do everything in his power to make it right again. I should feel grateful for this. But I'm going through every emotion known to man. Right now I can't "see" the other side where we can actually make our relationship stronger. Any insight?