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I had some suspicions and last night found out they were true. H said he has been cheating since this summer. He wouldn't tell me who with or how they met and I didn't get that far in my investigative work before I just had to stop detecting because the deceit of it was eating up my insides.
So, now it is Thanksgiving weekend and we were supposed to go see my family. He won't go; I want to run to them for comfort. I can't decide whether to just let him stay in the house doing God knows what, or get some new locks and ask him to leave before I travel. I have already taken some financial precautions, but I just don't know what comes next. I don't know what I am legally allowed to do or ask, and what is reasonable since I am still hoping he'll feel some guilt and want to work on our marriage. He seems so apathetic about it, though, and said he doesn't feel guilty. So, yeah.
Any words of advice from the been there done that crowd?
So, now it is Thanksgiving weekend and we were supposed to go see my family. He won't go; I want to run to them for comfort. I can't decide whether to just let him stay in the house doing God knows what, or get some new locks and ask him to leave before I travel. I have already taken some financial precautions, but I just don't know what comes next. I don't know what I am legally allowed to do or ask, and what is reasonable since I am still hoping he'll feel some guilt and want to work on our marriage. He seems so apathetic about it, though, and said he doesn't feel guilty. So, yeah.
Any words of advice from the been there done that crowd?