Print out what you posted and show it to him. Tell him you want to go to marriage councelling & start scheduling time daily for reconnecting & talking.
Your shortcomings? I assume you are referring to cooking & cleaning? That should be discussed as well. If you are both working the chores should be split or a maid could be hired. More take out & family cooking together. This is a ridiculous thing to b1tch about, IMHO. Finding solutions doesn't have to be painful process or placed on the shoulders of one spouse.
You have some work to do as well. You've put up with silent treatments for far too long, basically telling him it was OK to act like a sulky teenager when he got mad. That's not addressing conflicts, its both partners being OK with the problems being avoided.
Think of it as a brand new relationship, neither of you sound like you know each other at all. But someone has to start opening up communication. Yes even if its scary.
Your shortcomings? I assume you are referring to cooking & cleaning? That should be discussed as well. If you are both working the chores should be split or a maid could be hired. More take out & family cooking together. This is a ridiculous thing to b1tch about, IMHO. Finding solutions doesn't have to be painful process or placed on the shoulders of one spouse.
You have some work to do as well. You've put up with silent treatments for far too long, basically telling him it was OK to act like a sulky teenager when he got mad. That's not addressing conflicts, its both partners being OK with the problems being avoided.
Think of it as a brand new relationship, neither of you sound like you know each other at all. But someone has to start opening up communication. Yes even if its scary.