I have been married for only 6weeks. This is my 2nd marriage and my husband's 3rd marriage, and we are in our 50s.
While we were dating, I asked H if he had children, he said no. I just found out that he adopted his first wife's child. He married this woman when he was very young and adopted the child when he was an infant. I confronted him about this and he said that he has not had a relationship with his child since the divorce and therefore just somehow put it in his mind that he didn't have any children even though he does have an adopted child- What do you think? I feel duped.
I really am very confused and need advise - thank you. We are both christians, but I feel like a truck has hit me.
Thanks.
While we were dating, I asked H if he had children, he said no. I just found out that he adopted his first wife's child. He married this woman when he was very young and adopted the child when he was an infant. I confronted him about this and he said that he has not had a relationship with his child since the divorce and therefore just somehow put it in his mind that he didn't have any children even though he does have an adopted child- What do you think? I feel duped.
I really am very confused and need advise - thank you. We are both christians, but I feel like a truck has hit me.
Thanks.