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Im in my late 20s and have decided on a divorce with my wife. No kids involved. The problem is that shes emotionally abusive and manipulative. Ive recently seen major emotional changes and horrible decision making on her end. The problem is that we still live together and i completely support her financially. On top of this she is still very possesive of me but has already gotten a new boyfriend which she has already brought to my apartment to meet me. No hard feelings except i havent even moved on yet i work out of town 80% of the year and dont really have time to date. Shes a part time mall worker and parties and bar hops. She flip flops on rushing right in to a new marriage with him while still wanting me in her life for financial support and because i was so close with her family ...then on the other hand she has suggested and open marriage. The first choice im ok with to an extent. I refuse to pay any bills besides the cell phone plan that we share and im giving her the car because she needs it more than me right now and i can afford another one. However i refuse to pay for a place that i dont live and where she is with another man. Concerning the open relationship, i could have been ok with it if the marriage had not been so hostile. She resented me for things outside of my control and did stuff behind my back that mutual friends are slowly starting to tell me. Im not the type to make quick quick emotional decisions and i know she depends on me greatly. However, i feel like i am enabling destructive behaviour and getting used.