I'm a stay at home mom who worked and supported myself up until I got married and had kids in my late 30s. Now, I stay at home with twins. My husband always overrides me when I want to buy something, which isn't even that often and when I do, it's something small like a ten or fifteen dollar item. It's so hard going from supporting myself and making all the financial decisions to being told that I can't buy something. He makes a lot of money and we can afford it but he just doesn't want me to spend any money unless I absolutely have to. I'll do anything to stay home with my kids so if that's the way it has to be for right now, that's fine but it's a really hard change to get used to. I'm looking forward to going back to work when the kids go to school so I'll feel like I have some say if I want something. Anyone else struggle with the same thing?