Thank you. I am a hard worker if nothing else, so I suppose that is serving me well right now.I admire your tenacity. I would throw in the towel if there was no affection or words of affirmation. I suppose that's my love language. It has to hurt a great deal when he doesn't even want to give you a hug. Well, keep us posted. I just hope someday soon he'll tell you why he's detached from the marriage.
My therapist said that based on several things I have said, it sounds like he is going through a depressive episode (because he's withdrawn from friends, hobbies, interests, and not just me) and she said it's not a real diagnosis since she hasn't talked directly with him, but if that is the case, a lot of depression/depressive episodes start to work themselves out after about 8 months or a year without therapy or help.