My husband of 18 years all of a sudden started accusing me of cheating two years ago. He has accused me of sleeping with over 200 different men. He always says he has the proof but will never show it to me. But he is positive each time. I swear he search Facebook for men in our town and accuses me of sleeping with them. I have never cheated, or even thought about it. He has a porn addiction but accuses me of watching open all the time. He has messaged a woman online and told her that her husband was cheating with me. Luckily she did not believe him. He stole my phone and my hard drive from my laptop and hacked into them and downloaded all of my personal data. And refuses to give them back. He has told everyone he comes across that I have cheated. He constantly calls me horrible names. I was raped when I was a teenager and he uses that against me. The day after my dad died he told me to go suck my dead dad's ****. He even goes in the middle of the night and takes pictures of the homes and license plates of people he thinks I cheated with. Anytime I am upset about something he has done, he instantly starts accusing me again. He spends hours every single day trying to find proof that I cheated. He has started throwing things at me now. And telling me that he is leaving to go have sex with someone else. He leaves and won't answer my texts or calls. He hit me for the first time the other day and gave my a black eye along with multiple other bruises. My question is not about leaving him. That is obvious and is happening right now. I want to know if it is normal that before it got so bad, like when it first started I stopped being turned on by him. I stopped wanting sex. It became very uncomfortable and awkward for me. Is that normal for a woman that is being falsely accused by her husband?! Also, if I don't want sex he will call me so many names and he will do it for hours, telling me I'm worthless and so much more. Is bullying me into sex considered sexual abuse?