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Not going off topic, but I had a navy mate who’s wife (mid 30’s) took up with her 17year old sons friend, whilst we were deployed. Just saying, it happen.
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Sex with the young is mostly physical sex.
And hot and rapid passion.

No deep thoughts, just wham-bam, lets do it again... and again.

In the case of an older lover, male or female, with one much younger.....the older literally feasts on the younger's flesh.
Feasts with their eyes and hands....and lips, you get the picture.

The younger one, just wants to get hot and to get off.
'Foreplay' is the art, the part of being mature.

That play starts with glances, innuendos, come-ons, kisses and nibbling.... and, you get the picture.

'No play' is often the bailiwick of the young-at-play.
A kiss, a touch, stick-it-in and pump away.

Or, 'this was' the play.
No more, this, less more.

Porn has taught the young the ropes and the sinews.
And, how to sin, anew.

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He's 20, so an adult, but I couldn't agree more.
TBH, I have met some men this age whose kock age was leaps and bounds and twitches ahead of their clock age.
 

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You need to read the MARRIED MAN SEX LIFE PRIMER. If you need to work on yourself this will definitely let you know.
What is your wife saying? Does she even want to stay married? Is shy trying hard, half assed, not at all?
 

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You remaining in your situation causes emotional damage.
You need to get out of infidelity. You ought to start the divorce train rolling. See a lawyer, and have her served. What happens after that gets you out of infidelity. Either she wants to reconcile, and you withdraw the divorce, or she does not, and you divorce.
This is the quickest way out of infidelity. Remaining in the situation and hoping that some thing triggers her to make the change, or as you state, until you have exhausted your options,is a form of a 'pick me dance', which most WS find unattractive, and has very little success.
The quicker you start the D train, the quicker you find happiness one way or the other.
 
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