[*Deidre*]

Regardless of the “label”, this relationship is toxic and unhealthy. The only way to move forward and heal is to leave him and go no contact. That means changing your cell number if you need to. That means blocking every path between you and him. Not easy, but not impossible if you want to live better.

Edit to add - you post that you wish you had never left. He’s not acting this way because you left, he’s acting this way because this is who he is. And now he’s punishing you for leaving. You will never be able to love him enough to change this. I hope you choose you and a better life.

 

[*Deidre*]

I cannot do that as we have a child together. But thank you so much. 🖤

Okay, I see. You can have limited contact though which would mean only communicating about your child. I can only imagine how challenging coparenting with someone like this could be. I’m sorry you’re going through this unhappy time but you can leave him and make a better life, where you’re not treated so poorly. Good luck to you!