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My wife and i have been best friends since the age of 12. we havent had any other boyfriend or girlfriend. my wife hasnt even kissed any other guy, though through my teenage years i kissed a few girls.
we just went through our 7-year itch, and it really tested our resolve to stay together. we got over it but not without some permanent rifts. now in our 8th year of marriage, my wife and i hit 30, and her sexual drive has skyrocketed. it's always been more than mine, but now it's extreme. we have more of a best friend relationship than a romantic one, and she's wondering if she wants to spend her whole life with just her best friend without exploring any "romantically driven" one.
we love eachother like crazy...
that's the backstory.
the question is...what to do? our lease is up in 2 months and she has been entertaining the thought of getting separate apartments...
i think we have a bond that's rare, and believe there is nothing better out there...
any thoughts?
we just went through our 7-year itch, and it really tested our resolve to stay together. we got over it but not without some permanent rifts. now in our 8th year of marriage, my wife and i hit 30, and her sexual drive has skyrocketed. it's always been more than mine, but now it's extreme. we have more of a best friend relationship than a romantic one, and she's wondering if she wants to spend her whole life with just her best friend without exploring any "romantically driven" one.
we love eachother like crazy...
that's the backstory.
the question is...what to do? our lease is up in 2 months and she has been entertaining the thought of getting separate apartments...
i think we have a bond that's rare, and believe there is nothing better out there...
any thoughts?