My husband and I reconciled 2 months ago. We are both trying hard and although we are having ups and downs we are getting there. I hurt him badly when I left him (I had PTSD) and he hurt me badly after our breakup. While we love each other dearly, the love is not the same. We are both insecure and last night he told me he is worried I'll hurt him again. I'm also worried he'll do a runner on me and the kids again, so we both have valid concerns. My question is to those who have reconciled, will the love ever be the same again? is this just normal feelings while we build our trust up again? thanks in advance.