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A little background My husband and I have been together about 8 years. Sex was absolutely amazing up until the beginning of this year. I admit things have been hectic and a bit stressful but I'm at my sexual prime and I feel like I am being neglected.
We have sex maybe once a month if I am lucky. I am still young late 20s, still have a great body, still attractive. My body wants sex at least once a day but I would settle for 3-4 times a week.
I feel myself becoming very sexually frustrated and quite irritable when I am forced to wait for him. I have tried numerous times to initiate sex with him but I am always turned down. He says he's tired or not in the mood.(I thought those were my lines?) LOL Sometimes I catch myself daydreaming about having passionate wild sex then realize that's not my current reality.
He is in early 30s. He is still in good shape, sexy to me at least. But no sex drive. Like I said before HE WAS AWESOME in bed. I mean to the point where I would be ready for round two and think about him for days after. Now NOTHING FOR MONTHS.. AHHH
I have discussed this with him a few times and all he ever says is " Is Sex All You Think About?" I want to say well "yes, When i'm not getting any for months, what do you expect." But I just say No that isn't all I think about but I needed to know what's going on? He just says he's stressed, I'm selfish, I never think about his needs.. Not sure how he comes up with any of that considering I provide all his needs and then some.
I have waited patiently for him to come around, things to calm down. I haven't nagged him, haven't stop doing anything that I normally do. I act like things are fine even though I am dying inside. So much to say but I don't want to be 'That Girl'.
I am not sure if it's only me but if I'm stressed sex is awesome for me. It releases most of my stress for a while. Maybe I'm the only one.
Thank you in advance for reading and any questions are welcome.
We have sex maybe once a month if I am lucky. I am still young late 20s, still have a great body, still attractive. My body wants sex at least once a day but I would settle for 3-4 times a week.
I feel myself becoming very sexually frustrated and quite irritable when I am forced to wait for him. I have tried numerous times to initiate sex with him but I am always turned down. He says he's tired or not in the mood.(I thought those were my lines?) LOL Sometimes I catch myself daydreaming about having passionate wild sex then realize that's not my current reality.
He is in early 30s. He is still in good shape, sexy to me at least. But no sex drive. Like I said before HE WAS AWESOME in bed. I mean to the point where I would be ready for round two and think about him for days after. Now NOTHING FOR MONTHS.. AHHH
I have discussed this with him a few times and all he ever says is " Is Sex All You Think About?" I want to say well "yes, When i'm not getting any for months, what do you expect." But I just say No that isn't all I think about but I needed to know what's going on? He just says he's stressed, I'm selfish, I never think about his needs.. Not sure how he comes up with any of that considering I provide all his needs and then some.
I have waited patiently for him to come around, things to calm down. I haven't nagged him, haven't stop doing anything that I normally do. I act like things are fine even though I am dying inside. So much to say but I don't want to be 'That Girl'.
I am not sure if it's only me but if I'm stressed sex is awesome for me. It releases most of my stress for a while. Maybe I'm the only one.
Thank you in advance for reading and any questions are welcome.