Glad it worked for you. But that is as much luck of the draw as it is anything you did.I was actually a virgin and if I waited for my husband, who had at least 5 partners before me (i know its more, but he is prohibited of talking about it), I would have only learned to lay there on my side and look at the wall.
So everything I learned from reading, watching, talking and throught IMAGINATION and applied to my relationship.
So, by my "real life" experience, it ^^^^ isnt true at all.
Ps: imagination doesnt seem like it but is a pretty good source, btw.
It doesn't work for everyone.
I also did a lot of reading, watching, talking and I had quite the imagination. I suppose I was probably quite accurate with what I'd like or at least was game to try. But here's where the breakdown occurred... while I thought "yeah, I'd like to try X with my lifetime mate," I also though "no biggie if she's not into that." That's where I was wrong. Decades of same ol' same ol' had me really wanting more. So I was completely wrong in thinking I'd always be okay with the absolute basics. I want to share more with a partner and that is very important to me.
So in the end, my ignorance about myself, based on my lack of experience, has been my undoing, and has been a strain on the marriage.
So what I said is absolutely true--because I was saying it may or may not work depending on the specific couple involved.