What was her answer to him? If it was that you were better marriage material (stable family man type) that could be a negative.She did tell me that he once asked her why she chose me over him.
There are certain things that make an affair easier. One is having a previous relationship or knowing the guy well. Another is distance which makes compartmentalization easier.
You probably have nothing to worry about. I’m only saying that the most dangerous situation for a happily married woman to be in is to go to her hometown and see her old boyfriend without her husband. The attention of her boyfriend makes her feel desirable again she’s back where she was young and carefree. Now she feels like a woman and not just an old wife and mother.
This ^^^^^So, take your marriage to the next level of communication by accompanying your wife when she goes to visit. You can get a lot of communication in that way.:wink2: Some refer to it as mate guarding. Some think it's just common sense.