My wife has been leaving for all weekend long every weekend for nearly a yr now. She will not answer my calls or texts at theese times. She swears she is just out at a friends house, but we have not been intement for so long now I'm sure there is another man. I have also found receipts for a mens wedding band she had purchased a few months ago. Our wedding anniversary has came and went so I know it was not intended for me. (We were strapped for cash when we were married and had inexpensive rings) ....however she hasnt worn hers for a very long time now. She still wears other rings and new ones that I havent bought. One of which on her ring finger that I never bought. She is extremely distant and uncaring of anything that has to do with me or my needs or wants. We have 2 twin daughters aged 9yrs and 3 sons from her 2 previous marriages. 2 with us and 1 with his dad mostly. She belittles every concern I bring up, and I am at my wits end. This isnt fair to me or our children. I'm not a saint, and I'm sure I have some blame in this for not being attentive enough. But after yrs of being accused of cheating because I went to work, or talked to the parents of my childrens friends regarding thier sleepovers and such. This is ridiculous. I have had to turn down work because of her jealousy (I used to be self employed doing construction and remodeling work) I have since regained my position for my former employer because the headache wasnt with it. She will not accept it if I have any form of social media, so I have gone without them as well. She sure does use them though. She turns on the bathroom vent and locks the bedroom door to hide her phone conversations, and if I knock on the door to our bedroom she quickly says I have to go and hangs up before unlocking the door with an attitude to see what I want. I fear divorce is imminent, but I want nothing more than to have a happy relationship for me and for our children. I just dont know how much more of this I can take. Any insights or advice would be greatly appreciated.