:scratchhead:
In the past six weeks I:
- Joined a gym
- Gone out with buds more often
- Actively created more quality time with the little ones
- Given more positive attention to my wife
- Worked better toward my communication to her
- Ask of her the same
- Disciplined myself more to being the best dad I can be
- Became aware of the sh!t tests and how to handle them
- Started being more "naughty / aggressive" in the bedroom (pushing things a little more, and get this....asking / requesting)
The list can go on a little further, but I can't believe what just happened to me today...I went out with a bud last night while my W stayed home with the kids. She knew I'd be home late, but this morning when I put my arm around her waist and talked about my night, she told me, paraphrasing here, "it's too bad you're going to the gym I want to give you sex. Tomorrow for sure, is it a date?" And it's only been 2 days!!!
Floored, I was absolutely floored :smthumbup:
Damn, it really works...but of course it does. How had I been so stupid?
Sidenote: about 4 months earlier, I did tell her that I'd not tolerate a sexless marriage.
In the past six weeks I:
- Joined a gym
- Gone out with buds more often
- Actively created more quality time with the little ones
- Given more positive attention to my wife
- Worked better toward my communication to her
- Ask of her the same
- Disciplined myself more to being the best dad I can be
- Became aware of the sh!t tests and how to handle them
- Started being more "naughty / aggressive" in the bedroom (pushing things a little more, and get this....asking / requesting)
The list can go on a little further, but I can't believe what just happened to me today...I went out with a bud last night while my W stayed home with the kids. She knew I'd be home late, but this morning when I put my arm around her waist and talked about my night, she told me, paraphrasing here, "it's too bad you're going to the gym I want to give you sex. Tomorrow for sure, is it a date?" And it's only been 2 days!!!
Floored, I was absolutely floored :smthumbup:
Damn, it really works...but of course it does. How had I been so stupid?
Sidenote: about 4 months earlier, I did tell her that I'd not tolerate a sexless marriage.