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I have to admit Im a little embarassed asking this but was reading up on it and the only people I saw speak about it were men. Id like to hear from some women on this since to me, its like asking a man how it feels to have a baby, know what I mean? lol
 

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I have to admit Im a little embarassed asking this but was reading up on it and the only people I saw speak about it were men. Id like to hear from some women on this since to me, its like asking a man how it feels to have a baby, know what I mean? lol
Yeah, it's possible. The first time it happened to my wife she thought she had peed on me, and suffered the expected embarrassment. She said the sensation felt very much like a need to urinate as well.
 
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I have to admit Im a little embarassed asking this but was reading up on it and the only people I saw speak about it were men. Id like to hear from some women on this since to me, its like asking a man how it feels to have a baby, know what I mean? lol
Many definitely do. My wife for one.
 

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It is possible for a woman to expel fluid during orgasm. Some believe the fluid is female ejaculate. Some believe it's urine. Since women don't have prostate glands, only bladders, I'm inclined to side with the latter group.
 

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yes they can squirt, it's almost always due to vj orgasms as opposed to clitoral orgasms, no it's usually not urine (if it is, it's not an orgasm you just pissed her off), yes it comes from a gland near the urethra, and yes my girlfriend squirts and no I have not been successful in getting her to squirt but a prior boyfriend was and it's starting to bug me because I've tried all the tricks of the trade.
 

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I've heard or read from those that do, so I believe so. I haven't been able to experience it yet, but I hope to one day.
 

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An ex girl friend did. Crap, I miss her. :D
 
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yes they can squirt, it's almost always due to vj orgasms as opposed to clitoral orgasms, no it's usually not urine (if it is, it's not an orgasm you just pissed her off), yes it comes from a gland near the urethra, and yes my girlfriend squirts and no I have not been successful in getting her to squirt but a prior boyfriend was and it's starting to bug me because I've tried all the tricks of the trade.
You're not missing all that much, really. It winds up all over the sheets, and if she's on top, all over you. If you're using lube, you wind up squeege-ing off all of your slip'n'slide. I keep a stiff upper lip and have never said anything to the ol' lady, but given my druthers, I'd just as soon she not have this particular magic power.

My completely apocryphal, uninformed, medically uneducated guess is that it's not urine, but fluid trapped somewhere "up there" since, for my wife at least, it can be more pronounced after a long bath.
 

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You're not missing all that much, really.
It's not the squirting itself or all the fluids, it's the accomplishment.

Some other guy did it to her, I want to do it to.

Sort of like hitting the bell in the fair by hitting the target with the big hammer.



Ironically the guy that did it was grossed out by it and left her afterwards.

It's like giving up on golf because you hit a hole in one.
 

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It's not the squirting itself or all the fluids, it's the accomplishment.

Some other guy did it to her, I want to do it to.

Sort of like hitting the bell in the fair by hitting the target with the big hammer.



Ironically the guy that did it was grossed out by it and left her afterwards.

It's like giving up on golf because you hit a hole in one.
Ok, then.

1. It's possible
2. Keep swinging if it's that important to you
3. I understand that G-spot stimulation is correlated with squirting for those women who can do it.
4. Enjoy
 

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Ok, then.

1. It's possible
2. Keep swinging if it's that important to you
3. I understand that G-spot stimulation is correlated with squirting for those women who can do it.
4. Enjoy
Yes. It is about the G-Spot in my experience.

And without getting into this debate again, I can assure you in the women I have had this experince with, it is NOT urine. This has been explained in various literature. Not going to search it out for folks, they can do their own.
 

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Ah, but is it the gusher always depicted in porn?

Not that I, you, or anyone else here should be watching or have ever watched such degrading depictions. Purely hypothetical.
Please don't tell others what they should watch.

No, it's not hypothetical and porn isn't necessarily degrading.

Next you're going to say that cumming on your partner's face is degrading too?
 

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Please don't tell others what they should watch.

No, it's not hypothetical and porn isn't necessarily degrading.

Next you're going to say that cumming on your partner's face is degrading too?
I think his tongue was planted so far in his cheek when he wrote that you could be excused for thinking he was trying to find his own G-spot.
 

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Ah, but is it the gusher always depicted in porn?
Couldn't tell you. My wife doesn't allow manual or oral stimulation, so it's only happened during intercourse. I've never had a good look, as it were.
 

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I think his tongue was planted so far in his cheek when he wrote that you could be excused for thinking he was trying to find his own G-spot.
You think so?

I didn't see any intended dry humor there, and I'm usually pretty good at picking up on it.

Besides that sort of sarcasm has no place on a relationship support forum.

We're here to help.
 

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You think so?

I didn't see any intended dry humor there, and I'm usually pretty good at picking up on it.

Besides that sort of sarcasm has no place on a relationship support forum.

We're here to help.
Well, that's how I read it anyway. We're going to cross swords one day over my style I suspect as well.
 
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