I have been married for almost 20 years to my high school sweetheart. He gave me the ILYBINILWY speech and left five months ago. I firmly believe it is part of a mid-life crisis. We talk now only about our son, finances, etc. I know it sounds crazy as much as I have been hurt, but I really miss him as a part of my life. Is it possible after divorce to stay friends in any way? I just can't imagine him being completely out of my life, even as a friend.