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We don't have access to any money, without going through hoops right now.. probably not til Monday and need to resort to what measly amounts are left on two cards. And we've just went to a one income household.
So today, we're trying to figure out gas for the car at least til Monday evening, and he mentions the credit cards. I ask him if he made any purchases on it this billing cycle.. he says NO, but that they do charge fees.. so he doesn't know exact balance.. I say call. He calls one card and let's me hear the message that no charges have been made and then calls the other card and hangs up and says same thing.. I just thought it was odd so I asked to hear it... So then he tells me he went to lunch with one of the guys from work, blah blah.
I am furious... He lied to me until he had to say something.. he's done that with huge things, like the girl he fvcked who sued him.. he didn't tell me they had sex until we got called to court.
What is this??? He claims it was an innocent lie... WTF is that? An innocent lie? Problem is we are on a tight budget, so ten buck lunches are out of the question anyway.. but I might could understand if he had just said something, but to wait until he had to say something... Can I ever fvcking trust this man? Or am I overreacting (nicotine withdrawal.. 2 full days now)
So today, we're trying to figure out gas for the car at least til Monday evening, and he mentions the credit cards. I ask him if he made any purchases on it this billing cycle.. he says NO, but that they do charge fees.. so he doesn't know exact balance.. I say call. He calls one card and let's me hear the message that no charges have been made and then calls the other card and hangs up and says same thing.. I just thought it was odd so I asked to hear it... So then he tells me he went to lunch with one of the guys from work, blah blah.
I am furious... He lied to me until he had to say something.. he's done that with huge things, like the girl he fvcked who sued him.. he didn't tell me they had sex until we got called to court.
What is this??? He claims it was an innocent lie... WTF is that? An innocent lie? Problem is we are on a tight budget, so ten buck lunches are out of the question anyway.. but I might could understand if he had just said something, but to wait until he had to say something... Can I ever fvcking trust this man? Or am I overreacting (nicotine withdrawal.. 2 full days now)