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I would never tell a guy I was with he couldn't watch it, but I would tell him that he won't be with me if he does. His choice. If he then chooses the porn, I would know that we were very wrong for each other.

So my way or the highway then.

Actually Diana7's position on this, regarding not wanting to carry on a relationship with someone, if they want to view porn is perfectly reasonable.

So just like you, she is free to choose for herself who she will or won't consensually have relationships with, for whatever reasons she feels are best for her.

 

[Personal]

One can see a woman walk by and think, "She has a nice ass", and not be thinking how you would like to tap that ass.

Yep that is true. On the other hand one can also see a woman walk by and think they would like to share sex with her.

That said, there are some occasions when I see women, and I immediately think I would like to share sex with them. And for what it's worth my wife, also sometimes sees men who she thinks she would like to share sex with as well.