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My husband and I have been struggling. We even discusses separating again. Since then I think we've both been working hard. But he keeps slipping. His issue is he not tuned in to problems in daily life and cold in tough times. We went through therapy. I was told to stop enabling. So it is not going so well. I'm at my wits end. Today is case in point.
Our part time nanny called me and asked if our son could go for an hour of after school care because she was going to be late. I called the teacher and got it situated and then called my husband and told him. He would be home first.. From work. So I get a text from my husband at 5:30 telling me he went to the school to pick up our son and discord he had already been picked up. I texted back... Yes. She was only going to be an hour late. So he tells me "I didn't realize..". Etc. I let that go. This was 5:30. Then I find out at 7 o'clock he's still not home. I ask why... He said he had to go to the cleaners and get gas. I asked why he couldn't have taken our son so we didn't have to pay for an extra two hours of nanny. He said I didn't want him to have to sit in traffic. (he's 6).
I let that go... Then I check my voicemail and discover a vm from my son's school saying they never received tuition payment and it's all due on demand because we have lost our monthly option due to lack of payment. This was something I delegated to my husband because he needed to start helping me. Now you see why I have to do everything??
I can't take anymore?!? Am I overreacting!
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Our part time nanny called me and asked if our son could go for an hour of after school care because she was going to be late. I called the teacher and got it situated and then called my husband and told him. He would be home first.. From work. So I get a text from my husband at 5:30 telling me he went to the school to pick up our son and discord he had already been picked up. I texted back... Yes. She was only going to be an hour late. So he tells me "I didn't realize..". Etc. I let that go. This was 5:30. Then I find out at 7 o'clock he's still not home. I ask why... He said he had to go to the cleaners and get gas. I asked why he couldn't have taken our son so we didn't have to pay for an extra two hours of nanny. He said I didn't want him to have to sit in traffic. (he's 6).
I let that go... Then I check my voicemail and discover a vm from my son's school saying they never received tuition payment and it's all due on demand because we have lost our monthly option due to lack of payment. This was something I delegated to my husband because he needed to start helping me. Now you see why I have to do everything??
I can't take anymore?!? Am I overreacting!
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